Death by Template - How to avoid same same...

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Death Lillies

Have you hit social media peak yet? 
Distraction engine becoming sickening?
Every scroll reveals the same recycled “wisdom”:
✅ 5 tips to 10x your engagement
✅ Here’s how I gained followers
✅ The secret framework that changed everything

Copy. Paste. Post. Repeat.
Such a waste of potential and human energy.
Same hooks. Same formats. Same soulless noise.
Same same same same same

Personal branding “gurus” are teaching you how to achieve success.
Not memorable.
Not meaningful.
Not YOU.

They hand you templates like paint-by-numbers kits.
“Just fill in your industry here!”
“Insert your story there!”
“Yawn” 🥱

Or, it’s a done-for-you solution that requires little to no effort from you.
So who is the thought leader?
A 20-something-year-old behind a keyboard scraping content?

When everyone uses the same playbook,
Nobody plays to win.
Everyone plays not to lose.

Authentic personal branding isn’t about what you DO.
It’s about who you ARE.
Your job title? It’ll change.
Your company? Temporary.
Your tactics? They’ll expire.

But your story?
Your beliefs?
Your weird quirks?
Those are forever.

I’m bald, old, Welsh immigrant, left-handed and socially awkward AF.
I teach sales, but I also talk about storytelling.
I have built a following, but I dislike networking.
These aren’t bugs in my system.
They’re features.

Most of you are so busy trying to sound “professional”
that you’ve forgotten how to sound HUMAN.
You’re afraid to:
Share your failures (might look weak)
State strong opinions (might offend someone)
Show your personality (might seem unprofessional)
Be genuinely different (might not fit in)
So you hide behind safe, sanitised content that gets likes but builds nothing.

Here’s Your Wake-Up Call:
Stop asking “What should I post?”
Start asking “What do I believe?”
Stop copying what works for others.
Start creating what only YOU can create.
Stop trying to appeal to everyone.
Start repelling the wrong people to attract the right ones.

My Challenge to You:
For your next three posts, break your own rules:
Use design thinking, not templates. 
Share something that scares you (a time you almost failed)
Tell a story only you can tell (your lived experiences)
Teach from your failures, not just wins
Let your weird flag fly

The more YOU you are, the more you become irreplaceable.
Because in a world of copies,
Originals are priceless.
Be Different, be yourself, you are the best person to be you.

Who’s ready to burn their templates?🔥

P.S. - If this makes you uncomfortable, good. 
Comfort is where brands go to die.
 

I can’t get no satisfaction, I mean leads…